Senin, 03 Januari 2011

TIPS TO AVOID BEING A VICTIM

By. Ani Yusup

It is very important for everybody to help self defense skills, no matter how well-trained you are. To save yourself from a life-threatening attack you have to know how to present yourself as a bad target. You might be a victim-in-waiting or you give out the wrong signals.

To avoid from the nastier people out there, these tips for you to reduced your chances of being single out.

Body Languange

Anyone who start confrontational situations look for certain types of people to be their victim. They seek out the easiest targets just like the predators searching for prey.

A confident person who looks prepared and equipped to handle any situation wouldn't be a target for the mugger in the street. Present yourself in a manner that makes you appear like an easy target for trouble is not your goal in your life every day.

The victim selection process most of them made by the crucial body language. A typical bully or attacker will be looking for these signals, which are when you give off signs of your general demeanor without being consciously aware of it.

Your posture one of authority, your head should be up and you should appear alert and aware of your surroundings. The most important is you should be confident and smooth when you are walking.

Projective a positive persona at all time could stop you from being selected as the next victim, no matter how fearful or how concern you are.

Awareness

To avoid a potential attack, just being aware of your surroundings is enough sometimes. knowing that the shock will aid them in their mission to inflict misery and damage, attackers frequently use surprise tactics to gain an advantage. You can often dodge trouble by being alert and aware of potential danger.

Be very careful if you have to walk near potential hiding place for attacker. All you have to do is outward confidence with inward caution. To locate any threats, use your eyes and ears best you can do.

To avoid people who you think may cause trouble for you just cross the street. Stay close to groups of regular people as much as possible. Stay away from darkened area. If you think somebody is following you listen to your instincts, then do not be afraid to seek help from passing couples, shop owner, whoever near you.

You probably make a mistake, but it's better than take a risk.

Giving Help

Attackers usually initiate one-to-one contact with you in a seemingly innocent way like, asking you for simple direction. They're asking you for a time, asking you for cash, and asking if they've seen you arround.

Your respond is very important if an attacker try to engaged you in conversation. Are you easy prey? Are you a victim-in-waiting? The key is self confidence.

Be firm, be polite, and be fast. If you are walking try not to brake your stride too much as your answers with a non-confrontational reply, remember to make confident eye-contact.

"Sorry, I can't help you", say it with confident. This answer will be enough to deter an attacker.

To give off signals that you are not weak, all you need is a brief encounter in this situation. You should try to exude an aura of being able to take care of yourself in everything you do and say.

The attacker will avoid anyone who appears to be a tough target bacause no attackers wants a hard time from their chosen victims.

The right forethought could make you be the though target.

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